Hair - How to make it your erotic tool !




























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


Hair plays a significant role in most cultures.  Elaborate wigs were introduced as a sign of social status in 17th century Europe.  Geishas spent years learning how to create intricate styles that reflected their success.  In the 1960s men grew their hair long as a sign of rebellion, and then in the 70s women cut theirs short when androgynous was the style.  In the new millennium, almost every actress and model uses hair extensions to create flowing, Lady Godiva locks.  With hair so much at the forefront of our consciousness, it’s a wonder that it’s so widely overlooked as a tool for erotic pleasure. 
Whether it’s long, short, curly, straight, light, or dark, your woman probably has hair.  In fact, it was probably one of the first things you noticed about her.  Since then, you may have begun to view it as that thing that gets in your mouth when you’re making out and chokes you during sex.  Well, it’s time to reclaim the hair as a source of pleasure!  Here are a few tricks you can use to amp up the eroticism.

  • Brush the loose hairs out of her face.  There doesn’t actually have to be anything there, but the gesture shows that you are considerate of her.  Feeling valued by you is key to her physical attraction to you.  If you show that you’re paying attention to her welfare, even in minutia, she will feel closer to you, and therefore happier to let you get inside her.

  • Use her locks to tickle her face, neck, and wherever else you can reach.  Slow and light caresses with the ends of her hair will both relax and entice her.  It will mimic the feeling of being stroked with a feather.  But don’t let her have all the fun.  Have her do the same to you, only she’s not limited to just your upper body. 

  • Go ahead and pull it!  Now, before diving right in and taking a handful, double check with your partner to make sure there’s no weave action you may be yanking out.  When you’re passionately kissing, grab a handful at the base of her head.  Yank it back, and kiss her neck.  Make sure this is firm but gentle.  You don’t want to pull any hairs out, as that will interrupt the erotic energy.  Also, if you’re inside, or even hitting it from behind, go ahead and yank on her mane.  Make sure you know your girl well before attempting this move.  If she has any issues with dominance, she may feel degraded.  However, if she has dominance fantasies, that one will send her over the edge!


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Touching Bonds !


























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


When you first start seeing someone, the lust is uncontrollable.  You can barely keep your hands off each other.  There is hardly a moment when you’re not physically connected.  Then a few years down the road, you hardly touch except to make love.  Unbeknownst to you, this can prove to be detrimental to the relationship. 


Men don’t require much physical attention to feel close to their partners.  Being allowed to put it in her warm place on a regular basis is enough to feel a strong bond.  However, women react differently.  They love to be touched and caressed.  If not given enough physical contact outside the bedroom, they can begin to feel objectified and devalued.  Men typically don’t understand this because they are not fully appreciative of what it is like to be a woman. 
Women spend much of their lives fighting objectification.  From the day she got boobs, men of all ages have been leering at her sexually.   It’s a life-changing moment the first time a girl catches one of her dad’s best friends looking at her ass.  When she is in a relationship, she does not want her partner to make her feel the way she did when she caught “Uncle Larry” checking her out. 


It’s not too difficult to avoid coming across as Chester the Molester.  You just need to learn to express some physical intimacy when you’re not in the sack.  That doesn’t mean fondle her breasts while you’re sitting on the couch.  It means employing other forms of touch into your relationship.   
One of the greatest intimacy builders can be simple hand holding.  Whether you’re walking down the street or sitting in a movie, grab her hand just to hold it, but not to put it on your crotch.  It will make her feel warm and comforted.  Don’t be afraid to kiss her fingers or stroke her palm.  The sensations will increase her desire to touch you with more body parts. 


Another under-utilized bonding tool is hugging.  Wrapping her in a warm embrace, with no pretenses of poking her with your boner, makes her feel secure.  Hold her while you chat about your day.  Stroke her back, and give her little kisses on the nose.  Gaze into her eyes for a long period of time.  Studies have shown that prolonged eye contact is an intimacy builder, and intimacy is what she wants to feel with you. 
Lastly, kiss her.  Kiss her just to kiss her.  If you can manage that without humping her leg, the emotional reward she feels with greatly outweigh the physical reward you get from sex.  Don’t just kiss her to humor her, really appreciate what she gets out of it.  The more you bond physically outside the bedroom, the more she’s going to want to bond in the sack!


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Breasts - Mastering the Twin Peaks !

































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


Whether you’re a leg man or an ass man, every man is a breast man.  Breasts have more nicknames than anything else on the planet.  Gossip blogs are constantly reporting on celebrity “nipple slips.”  The mere hint of Janet Jackson’s bear breast during the Super Bowl Half-Time Show caused one of the largest controversies in media history.  So what is this crazy obsession we have with breasts?  Is it just because men don’t have them?  Is it some oedipal reaction to having been breast fed?  Whatever it is, men like breasts, and they like them a lot. 


One of the most common complaints women have about their partners is that he won’t stop touching her boobs.  Everything they do together, he must somehow incorporate the tittay-grab.  When he’s watching TV, he’s playing with her nipples.  While she’s doing the dishes, he’s massaging her mammories.   I know, I know, they’re there, they’re awesome, and you just gotta touch them.  In the long run, this could end up hindering your rack rights.  So unless you’re up for a booby-free existence, let’s go for quality over quantity when it comes to funbag fondling.  If you’re willing to practice a little self control, she will actually love to have you all over her chest.


The cardinal rule of breast handling is never pull down!  Women spend billions of dollars every year on bras that lift them up and surgeries to add perk.  If you’re yanking downward on them, it feels like you’re undoing all that work.  She will actually get the heebie-jeebies, which is not the sensation you’re going for if you’re trying to warm her up.  Concentrate instead on upward motions.  Stroke, cup, and fondle, but never in a downward motion. 
So now you know in which direction to touch her, but now you need to know how.  Do not just nose dive for the nipples.  Yes, nipple stimulation works, but it’s much more effective to tease around them first.  Grab one and give it soft bites along the underside.  Repeat on the opposite breast.  If you give one attention, don’t forget to give the other one the same amount.  Just like you don’t want her to play favorites with your testicles, she doesn’t like it if you over-indulge one of her boobs.  You can kiss, suck, lick, and caress your way up to the nipple.  Once you get there, she will be so riled up that the feeling of her nipple between your teeth will bring her to near orgasm. 


There you have it.  With proper attention paid to both breasts and avoidance of the nipple until prime time; you’ll go from simply being a breast man to becoming a breast master.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Below the belt - Some of the Best Spots !


















by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


You probably think this is going to be a guide to the clitoris.  Well, you’re wrong.  There are places below the belt you can touch her besides between her legs.  I will break it down into regions for you so it’ll be easier to comprehend. 


The booty


I’m sure that you go for the booty-grab at every moment you can sneak on in.  She leans in for a kiss – grab the booty.  She gives you a hug – grab the booty.  She’s doing dishes – grab the booty.  When you’re in bed, there’s also the booty smack.  Before you incorporate this move, be sure she’ll be down for it.  I don’t mean you should stop while you’re railing her from behind and say, “Excuse me, miss, would you mind so much if I smacked that booty?”  You should be comfortable enough with her to know in advance how she’s going to react. 
Then there’s the more sensual approach to touching her booty, and that is the tickle.  You can use your fingers, a feather, or anything else lying around.  Start with her back.  Caress her so lightly that you hardly make contact with her skin.  Move down toward her lower back.  Hang out there for a while as her body relaxes.  Trace the sides of her hips, and finally, right where the thigh and the buttocks meet.  Move away, and come back every once and a while.  It will send shivers through her whole body.  Especially to the spot you want to stimulate. 


The knees


The knees are an often overlooked area for pleasure.  You can give fluttery little kisses around the kneecaps, or tiny bites on the sides of the knee.  The real pleasure center here, though, is the back of the knees.  Now, most women are quite ticklish on the backs of their knees, but if she’s relaxed, it can give exciting sensations similar to when you tickle under her buttocks. Make sure you use only the lightest of touch, but caressing her behind her knees will give her a thrill even she’s not expecting!   


The feet


Never underestimate the power of the foot massage.  It’s become a bit of a cliché, but its effectiveness has stood the test of time.  Women typically wear all kinds of crazy shoes.  If you give even five minutes of a good foot rub, it will ease the tension of the day.  Use slow movements to make it more sensual, and add some lotion to your palms to help glide along the foot.  She will be so grateful, she’ll want to come up with some way special to thank you!


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Back Door Betty


























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 
Ah, anal sex.  Depending on the person, it is the greatest fantasy or the worst turn-off.  Some women run in fear at the thought, while some practically beg for it.  There are men who will do anything to get in the backdoor, and others who couldn’t imagine putting it in the poop shoot (FYI, not even all gay men like anal).  If you’re one that wants to see what all the fuss is about, here is a step-by-step guide to making it a pleasurable, or at least tolerable, experience for both. Warning: this is a high-risk activity.


  1. Lube it up…a lot!  Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own lubrication.  Use a water based lubricant.  You can get something flavored if you want to put it on her before you stick your tongue in there.  However, never, EVER attempt anal sex without lubrication.  It will cause tearing in her anus, not to mention a lot of pain.


  2. Relax!  Have her take some deep breaths.  Perhaps you can give her a massage first to loosen her up.  If she is a little ball of tension, it causes the sphincter to tighten.  If that’s tight, you’ll never get in.


  3. Slip a finger in.  Start small, especially if this is her first time.  Meaning, use your pinky.  Once you’re all lubed up, glide it in and out slowly and gently to get her used to insertion.  Next try your ring finger.  Really work it out.  Insert it, swivel around, tickle.  The more time you can spend the better.  If she can’t handle your finger, she sure as hell won’t be able to handle your penis.  That is, and I hope for your sake, if your penis is larger than your digits.


  4. Now you’re ready.  Don’t go jabbing your member straight into the no-no hole.  You will be immediately kicked out of bed, maybe forever.  Particularly amongst anal virgins, this needs to be gradual.  Tease the anus a bit, and then slide in just the head.  Pull out, and then slide it in a little deeper.  Keep doing it until you can comfortable get it all the way in.  Don’t add speed or pressure until she is ready for it.  Well, now you can take it from here.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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