The Clitoris: Okay, What is It?


























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 

So you want to be a sexual maverick.  Well, everyone worth his erotic salt knows that it’s all about the clitoris.  It’s that tiny well-spring of pleasure that is so difficult to pinpoint.  Every man wants to become the master of the clit.  However, conquering that miniscule bulb over a woman’s vagina can be such an impossible task.   

Your penis is very straight forward: you touch it, it gets hard; you touch it more, and you cum.  The reason it is so easy is that everything you need to work with is right in front of you.  That is not so with a woman’s genitalia.  The little bulb you see when you’re looking at it straight on is only a small portion of what makes up the clit.  Most of it is internal, which is why it is so hard to figure out. 

I don’t want to skeeve any guys out here, but the appearance of the clitoris as a whole is quite similar to the penis; it’s just mostly on the inside.  It is reminiscent in shape and function as it has both a shaft and erectile tissue.  What you think of as the clit is actually just the head or glans of the clitoris.  If you look closely at it, the glans does bear resemblance to the head of a man’s penis, only significantly smaller.  Despite its size, the head of the clitoris houses twice as many nerves as does the penis - which is why her orgasms are much, much better than yours. 

When a woman is not stimulated, the clitoris appears internally like a flaccid penis does externally.  Upon arousal, it becomes engorged and erect, actually hardening like a man’s penis.  The head pushes against the clitoral hood, which is homologous to a man’s foreskin.  The head can be incredibly sensitive, and the clitoral hood protects it from irritation.  This is particularly important if a woman is not properly stimulated, as the sebum produced by the body is what protects the clit during intercourse. 

However similar in appearance the clitoris is to the penis, it reacts quite differently to stimulation.  It’s easy to stimulate a penis to ejaculation.  You just need to touch it.  However, the clit is not an on/off switch.  If you attempt to stimulate the clitoris before she is adequately aroused, you’re going to end up irritating her more than arousing her.  In which case, it’s all over for you, pal.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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How Women Masturbate





















by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 

I have some shocking news.  Women like to masturbate.  Of course they do, masturbation is really fun!  They masturbate far more than you give them credit for.  In fact, for a shockingly large amount of women, that is the only way they can achieve orgasm.  While you’re aimlessly poking around down below, she’s thinking, “Whatever, just fake it so he’ll stop.  I can take care of myself later.”  This is not because of your inadequacies as a lover, nor is it unfixable.  It’s simply a lack of understanding how her body works. 

Men and women experience sex in very differently.  For men it’s relatively easy: see woman, want to have sex with woman, hopefully penis will touch woman.  Obviously that is an oversimplification, but, compared to the woman’s experience, that’s all it is.  If you develop a better understanding of how women satisfy themselves, perhaps it would seem less complicated.   

She creates a mood 

In order to achieve orgasm, a woman needs the right atmosphere.  She doesn’t light candles and get out the satin sheets every time she masturbates; she just needs to feel comfortable.  If not, she can’t concentrate on the task at hand, so to speak.  If she is too cold or too exposed or too anything that distracts her pleasure, it’s not going to happen.  That sounds daunting, but finding the right ambient balance isn’t too difficult if her mind is calm.  Plus, extreme horniness will always overtake any environmental distractions. 

She sets a pace 

Regardless of the method, a woman touches herself rhythmically.  Meaning, there is an even flow of strokes and caresses, allowing her to concentrate on the sensations each touch gives.  A choppy technique can be distraction.  Whereas a man responds to physical stimulation alone, a woman puts herself into an almost meditative state.  Otherwise, no amount of touching will induce orgasm.  Again, this sounds quite complicated to men, but a woman does know how to adjust her focus in different situations.  

She has a specific technique 

All women have that one sure-fire orgasm making technique.  This is not to say that a woman has only one way of satisfying herself, but she does have a method that guarantees her orgasm.  I know that you are hoping that I’m about to tell you what it is, but I’m not.  It is as diverse as women themselves.  Some women like direct manual stimulation of the head of the clitoris, but some women are far too sensitive and require indirect stimulation.  There are even women who can get off just by rubbing their inner thighs.  Whatever her technique, find out what it is, and learn to employ it in given situations. 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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