Foreplay is the Real Play






    
















by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



Men tend to approach sex in the wrong way.  They think that the harder they ram, the harder she’ll cum.  Unfortunately for women, this doesn’t work.  Did you know the best way to make a woman cum is to not even get inside her?  That’s right, good old third base is a home run for the ladies.  The vagina has very few nerve endings past the opening, and hitting the g-spot through penetration is more about lucking out than mastering technique. 
The male species often thinks that third base is a means to prepare her for his throbbing member, which is why the women they’re with tend not to respond with the screaming orgasm of which they are capable.  If you reprogram yourself to thinking about digital stimulation as part of “having sex,” then you’ll be able to satisfy her on new levels.  She will certainly thank you for it!  

Before you make the journey into the bush, you have to start elsewhere.  Women don’t have the ability to dive right into sex the way men do.  She needs a bit of a build up.  This starts from the moment you hope to have sex with her later.  Every small touch, glance, and kiss throughout the night draws her closer to you.  It will be very difficult to get her started if you’ve been acting like she’s a stranger for the past several hours.  She doesn’t have to feel completely in love with you, but she does need to feel some sort of connection. 

When you’re finally alone, never underestimate the power of a good make out session.  Don’t try to force it, but if you can start with gentle kisses that escalate into tongue tangling passion, her nether regions will be begging for some attention once you get there. 
In the midst of your good old fashioned make-out, put your hands other places, and I don’t mean breasts alone.  You should stroke her back, her sides, her hair, and her breasts.  Play with her nipples for a while, and then move else where.  Go back, move away, and repeat.  Once you feel her breath quicken and her grip tighten, don’t leave her hanging, get down there and touch away. 

It is best to not go into full on assault mode.  Start by massaging the outer parts of her vulva, and her inner thighs.  If you just graze the clitoris now and again, it will send shock waves through her body.  When it’s time, zero in on the sweet spot, and don’t move until she has had at least one mind-blowing climax.
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








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Man vs. Vibrator


































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


Q:  Why do women get married?

A:  Because vibrators can’t mow the lawn. 

In very recent human history, discussion of women’s sexuality has become increasingly acceptable, and her gratification is becoming just as important as a man’s.  We are studying the female body more closely, unlocking the secrets to pleasure centers of which we had little previous knowledge.   You can practically get a vibrator on every street corner (it’s true, they sell them at American Apparel).  And vibrators are vastly superior to men at producing orgasms.  Why?  Read on. 

  1. Vibrators are not obsessed with their own penises.  The vibrator’s sole function is to get a woman off.  It is not frantically poking away at her most sensitive bits muttering, “Come one, come one,” under its breath because it wants to get through her stupid orgasm as quickly as possible so it can get onto its own climax.

  2. No vibrator has ever complained about the way she smells.  Just as men are always obsessing about their size, women are worried about their vaginal odor.  The fact that it doesn’t naturally taste like passion fruit doesn’t help the insecurity.  If you’re uncomfortable with cunnilingus, that is fine.  Just don’t make a big deal about how much you hate the taste/smell, or she’ll never be able to get wet with you again.

  3. Vibrators maintain a rhythm.  They don’t gently stroke her for a minute or two, then audibly sigh, and increase speed and pressure for another minute or two, and then again audibly sigh and repeat until her clit feels so attacked it’s running in fear.  Contrary to general male practices, this is not the proper method of stimulation.  The rhythm and pressure need to be consistent.  However fast or hard you do it depends on the woman and the day, but whatever it is, keep it going.  If you get too jerky she’ll be thinking, “What the hell is he doing?” and not, “Oh, this feels so good.”  You want relax her, allow her to appreciate the sensation, and if you’re not creating a soothing rhythm it interrupts her concentration.  However, if she’s screaming, “Faster! Faster!” go ahead and speed up.

  4. Her vibrator does not beg her for sex.  It just shows up and does its job when she needs it.  If she’s had a long day, or she’s in the middle of something, or if she’s just plain tired, her vibrator will not whine or complain or try to guilt her into using it.  Her vibrator patiently waits for her to be ready.  When she is feeling horny, her vibrator has not irritated her to the point of being inutile in relation to her pleasure.  And her vibrator has probably lasted longer than most of her relationships.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Getting Her Off































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 
 


Men are incredibly penis-centric beings.  They love to look at it, touch it, talk about it, and some men even name it!    However, women are not as into your penis as you are.  In fact, they tend to orgasm significantly more often when it’s not your penis doing the job.  The vaginal wall has very little in the way of nerves.  It’s the clitoris, which is on the outside, that makes the O-face happen.  That is, if you treat it right. 

Do not just dive right in.  It will only irritate her.  I know you’re thinking, “But it feels so awesome every single time someone touches my penis, so how can it not be the same for chicks’ clits?”  The clitoris and the penis are extremely similar in shape and function, but there are some differences.  Her pleasure organ is largely internal, and not as weathered as your well-beaten member, so it is quite a bit more sensitive.   

When she is in a neutral state, the head of her clitoris is exposed.  The head is the home to over 8,000 nerve endings, which is why it is so much better than your penis is at having orgasms, but also why your fingers feel like cheese graters on her under-stimulated organ.  However, when the woman is aroused, the erectile tissues fill with blood, and the clitoris becomes erect (sound familiar?).  In its erect state, the head slides under the clitoral hood where it is protected and coated with sebum produced in her body.  Meaning, she gets wet. 

The importance of wetness can never be over stated.  Without it, you shouldn’t even bother to get an erection, because she’s not going to let you touch her with it.  So how can you achieve that desired state?  Well, you could immediately run to your trusty water-based, mango flavored lube, dump it in your hand, smear it all over her vulva, and jam your penis in there, or you could do it the way she likes it.  That means foreplay.  A sweet kisses, nipple biting, and everything in between is what she really needs.  If you can provide her with ample stimulation before you even go near her clitoris, it will significantly cut down on the awkward prodding that takes place when you try to go in cold. 

Women are walking erogenous zones.  They don’t have just the one sex organ that is the epicenter of awesomness.  A woman’s whole body is covered in little spots that get them hot.  Where those exact spots varies from woman to woman, and day to day.  But figuring out where they are is all part of the fun.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Psyche Out




























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  
 
 

Men are quite phalli-centric when it comes to sex.  Meaning, they think that sex revolves completely around their penis.  This is a great detriment to most women’s sex lives.  When you put all the importance in sex on your own organ, it virtually negates the need for your partner.  Yes, it feels so much better to put your penis into a vagina than into your fist, but if that is your only concern you’re not really having sex, you’re just getting off.  Guess what?  She can tell, and the more you make her feel like nothing but a cum dumpster, the more she is going to pull away from you sexually. Translation – if you don’t put any effort into her experience in the sack, she will cease to put out.  

The greatest impediment to a woman’s orgasm is psychological.  She must feel sexy in order to feel sexual.  In today’s age, there is a constant bombardment with images of fantasy – Victoria’s Secret Angels, impossibly perfect and perky heroines in film, the mainstreaming of porn.  The business intention behind this is to create an aspirational image.  Nobody buys into something they already have.  

However, in the past fifty years, our access to media has increased exponentially, and society’s consciousness hasn’t necessarily had time to adjust.  No matter how secure a woman is, or how much she turns you on, those images of rote, male-specific fantasy still lurk in her subconscious.  Women’s magazines are flooded with articles featuring Photoshopped spreads of actresses giving interviews revolving completely around diet and exercise routines.  

Oprah publicly apologized for gaining weight.  No matter how much they fight against it, women are consistently told that there is a single standard for hotness, and none of them fit it.  If you get up in there, pump away until you’re done, and then roll over and start snoring, it looks to her like you merely put it where you were given permission, but you were really thinking about Jessica Alba the whole time.  Seriously, ask any female. 
You are probably now totally afraid of the female brain, and you probably should be.  However, all of those issues can be momentarily erased by overwhelming sexual desire and mind-blowing orgasms.  Touch her, stroke her, really feel everything that makes her unique.  Take the focus off your penis, and put it onto the woman in your bed.  If you start paying attention to her responses, and give her the orgasms she should be having, you’ll see an improvement for both parties.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Third Base Rules


































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  
 
 


You probably think that your penis is the greatest thing that’s ever happened to women.  That’s plain not true.  In fact, one of the best tools for sexual stimulation is right in your hands…or, on your hands I should say.  That’s right, your fingers.  Digital stimulation is one of the most effective ways to send a woman into blissful orgasms.  Here’s a rundown on third base. 

  1. Foreplay.  I know that you think fingering her is foreplay, but this is why you keep missing the train to O-town.  Women’s physical arousal is very different from a man’s.  For men it’s easy: show some cleavage, he’s up.  Touch his dong, he ejaculates.  A woman needs a more complete process to be turned on, and if you touch her privates before you’ve warmed her up, it is irritating at best.  Fortunately, if she likes you well enough to even consider letting you touch her in her swimsuit place, that’s half the battle.  The rest of it involves attention: kissing, fondling, stroking.  Whatever it is that helps to build a connection between the two of you is valuable.  Soul bearing honesty is unnecessary, just show that you are in the moment with her.  She may have no intention on calling you the next day, but if all you do is absentmindedly stick your penis in her, she’ll mock you to her friends.

  2. Tease.  Once you have spent some time with the rest of the body, you can move between the legs.  Again, patience, grasshopper.  She may be slightly aroused, but if you go in now you’ll be at it so long your fingers will cramp, and you’ll get bored.  If she sees that you’re bored, she’ll never cum.  Instead, feel around the lady bits.  Cup them with your hand.  Massage her labia gently and slowly, but then move to her inner thighs for a bit.  If you rub the fleshy part of the upper inner thigh, you will run into the pudendal nerves, which are the carriers of stimulation to and from the clit.

  3. Go for it.  Now she is ready for you to finish her off.  If you aren’t using lube or spit, the next source is her vagina.  You can slide one or more fingers into the vagina to give them some glide, but do not think that you are going to make her cum that way (unless you’re a g-spot expert, but if everything here is new info, you’re probably not.)  Apply light, rhythmic strokes to the head of the clitoris.  Whether, it’s counterclockwise, clockwise, up and down, or what, just make sure you keep a consistent rhythm to the strokes.  You can pull away every now and again if she is not near orgasm.  If she is about to cum, you better stay in that exact spot until you finish her off, as she will stop climaxing the second you stop touching her.  Then, you are going to have one angry lady on your hands.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Women and Pleasure






























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  
 
 


Men seem have a rather difficult time pleasing a woman.  This is not because she lacks the right equipment to achieve orgasm.  Men lack a real understanding of how female pleasure works.  Most seem to have it in their heads that poking a woman in the vagina will give her screaming orgasms.  However, this is way off base.  The walls of the vagina have very little in the way of pleasure building nerve endings.  This is the reason that about 75% of women have never had an orgasm during intercourse.  However, it’s not as difficult to make her cum as you, and often times she, has made it out to be. 

Most women masturbate.  In fact, they masturbate much more than you think.  In some cases it is the only way a woman gets off.  When you’ve been ineptly prodding her nether regions to no avail, she usually thinks, “I’ll just finish this job myself later on.”  She knows exactly where her glorious bundle of orgasm-inducing nerves is concentrated.  She can hit that spot and stay until climax, instead of getting bored, losing concentration, and wandering off the hot spot.  Also, a woman feels fewer inhibitions on her own. 

A large part of a woman’s sexual satisfaction has to do with her state of mind.  Women have not been socialized to like sex in the same way men have.  They are taught to associate a certain amount of shame in conjunction with their sexuality.  Even as they mature and discover themselves, it is still a very large barrier to break through.  Related to this is the fact that sexual portrayals in media both disregard and objectify the female.  Women are the mechanisms of the male fantasy, and there is immense pressure to live up to that fantastical standard, which has little to do with her pleasure.  Knowing how much you love to see Briana Banks screaming in ecstasy mere seconds into penetration could lead her to feeling sexually inadequate when a glance from your member doesn’t send her over the top.  Pressure to orgasm practically guarantees its impossibility.  

Finally, a man should know that sexual stimulation for a woman is not an on/off switch.  Just because you touch her in a certain spot, does not necessarily mean you are going to make her cum.  Before you even think about making contact with her genitalia, you need to prepare her in other ways.  Otherwise you’ll be fumbling around down there while she’s watching Everyone Loves Raymond on TNT.  Kiss her, stroke her, caress her, and really value the woman in your bed.  When she feels relaxed, comforted, and valued by the man in her bed, then she can achieve real sexual satisfaction.



About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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