The 3 Paradoxes of Great Sex





























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 


These 3 mistakes all come from the “land of good intentions”, but still, they wreak merciless havoc on the lives of countless men.

I’m referring to the following:

1. The Paradox of Trying Too Hard
2. The Paradox of Thinking Too Much
3. The Paradox of the Simple Moves


1. THE PARADOX OF TRYING TOO HARD

Great sex will always be about FLOW.

One doesn’t need to press for it, trying too hard on any area will cause you to mess it up ­ that’s a guarantee. The tragedy is that most men don’t even see this one coming and end up working against themselves ­ the harder they try, the harder it becomes.

One of the temptations of having too many tricks in the bag is to unleash them in a grand overflow and put on a show. Needless to say, you’ll reek of the ‘trying too hard’ vibe. Instead of dazzling Eve, you’ll turn her off ­ for the vibe masks a specific
fear ­ the fear of inadequacy, that nagging feeling of not being good enough.

You’re afraid she won’t have a great time unless you pleasure the brains out of her, so you feel compelled to unleash every physical technique to compensate for a personal issue.

Like I said, this will backfire.

You don’t need to do everything ­ don’t be an overeager yes-man. The rookie mistake here is trying too hard to please every woman, every time, with the hopes of being the best she’s ever had. You’ll end up pleasing nobody. Instead, learn to lean back and let sexual excellence come to you.


2. THE PARADOX OF THINKING TOO MUCH

Great sex is always UNCONSCIOUS; it’s not logical or rational.

The bedroom is not the place to think, and the absolute worst time to contemplate your
insecurities, sexual hang-ups and skills. Deal with them BEFORE your next carnal encounter and AFTER your last one... NEVER DURING.

Calibrate... but don’t thresh-out psychological issues in the heat of things. Self consciousness and self-talk pull you out of the moment and into a negative spiral where you become sexually ineffective and out of touch.

Don’t be overly concerned with the mechanics and metrics of intercourse ­ like the exact pressure or angle of your hand, or the direction of your thrusts. When it comes to the real thing -- stop thinking -- focus on your partner and immerse in the moment.

Don’t plan every move as if sex is a series of perfectly executed maneuvers. When you over-think things, you’ll mess up. The best crane operators don’t analyze every step... they just do it, the moves have become 2nd to nature.

If you think too much, I assure you that the sex will get worse ­ instead of enjoying, you’ll be too busy figuring out the next best move. Just enjoy the process, take it easy and don’t be too hard on yourself.

It goes without saying that one doesn’t have to gun for sexual perfection... there’s no such thing. Afford yourself some mistakes and don’t make a big deal out of it. This is very, very important.


3. THE PARADOX OF THE SIMPLE MOVES

Great sex will always about the SIMPLE MOVES.

It is the aggregate of simple things, done in the right way and at the right time, that makes the world of difference. You have to drive that one in your head. THERE ARE NO BIG TRICKS.

This is not about big moves or magic techniques ­ it’s about the snowballing of easy to do maneuvers. The biggest lesson here is understanding that it’s the small things that truly matter. It’s not about making extensive changes to your game, but simply
tweaking it.

It’s learning to feel not just with your hands, but with your fingertips. It’s being in-tune not just for her screams, but even to her breathing. Not just about writhing bodies but little twitches.

Great sex is simple, (‘simple’ doesn’t mean ‘boring’), it’s not replete with shock-and-awe. The road to sexual greatness is not some hidden mythic trick, for the most elegant and effective moves have never been kept secret, they have always been there.

They just have been overlooked... if not forgotten. Being unpretentious, they easily pass off as insignificant.

So there you have it, The paradox of trying too hard, thinking too much and simple moves. Remember these three concepts when making love next time and you'll come across much more confident, sexy and natural.



About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Foreplay is FOR-Excellent-PLAY


































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  


Foreplay is really a basic necessity to get a woman going. Look at it this way, when you start your car engine in the morning, do you immediately shift the gear and get going? Hell NO! You need to warm it up first right? If you don’t then you’re bound to have engine problems sooner or later.

The same holds true with a woman...you seriously need to warm her up first and believe me, once you have achieved that and gotten her all lubed-up, you can expect her to rev-up like a Ferrari and run for hours and would only stop when you-yourself switch YOUR engine off.

C’mon now! Quit whining! Instead of whining and treating giving foreplay as an excruciating ordeal and an endless waiting game prior to getting what you really want, treat it as the key or special ingredient to a different level of sexual experience.

“Why can’t we just get it over with? I have a meeting in a few hours and I’m so freaking horny!” Women are by nature emotional and are constantly seeking intimacy and appreciation especially with their partners. They are not mechanical objects that you can just switch on and off when you want to or need them. 

You have to understand women and their needs to get the most out of your relationship. Believe it or not, it works both ways. Give them what they need and you’ll get yours with a bonus without asking for it.

Is there an instructional manual on how to give a woman the foreplay that is required to get her to purr? There’s no step by step guide on how to go about giving a woman the foreplay that she needs. It’s fairly easy if you actually modify your goal to just sticking the beef and getting off. 

I’m pretty sure you have 5 senses to use right? There’s the sense of touch, smell, sight, taste and hearing. It’s all given; you just have to be creative and appreciative. A mere wink can let her light up like a light bulb because it is a gesture that you find her beautiful. Run your fingers on one side of her cheek before kissing her lightly on the lips and slowly lowering your hands to touch her breasts and whispering sweet nothings to her ears would definitely be a turn on.

“Now what? Can we have sex now?” NO NO NO! NOT YET! Never Rush foreplay! Kiss her, lick her, touch her, suck her, smell her, rub her pay attention to every part of her body that you admire about her to wind her up. Don’t sell her short of what she deserves Never rush foreplay and wait until until she begs you to take her. That would be the exact sign that men would need to that you have satisfied her darn demand for foreplay. Though you would most likely give out a sigh of relief and thank God it’s over, you are assured you have satisfied your woman and word would go out and women will treat you like a god. 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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The Birds and the Bees? Oh Puhlease!


































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  


Why do parents, teachers and older siblings preach so much about never telling a lie and that you will go to hell if you tell a lie. But what do they do? Exactly the opposite when faced with questions from the rugrats about why Sarah sits down when she pees and junior gets to pee standing up. 

The lamest explanation I ever came across with that one parent came up with is “because Sarah is a princess and her pretty dress would get wet if she pees standing up and you are a Prince and you will be king someday so you have to show them that you don’t have to sit down because it would show you are weak”. 

Is this fair? To lie about the truth and eventually retract your statement when they are ready? When is the right time to teach children about these things? Is there really a right time?

Ever seen Kindergarten Cop when this young boy kept blurting out “boys have a penis, girls have a vagina”? It’s absolutely hilarious but after the movie you couldn’t help but ask if this is the right time to expose this boy to the truth about the reproductive difference between a man and a woman. It’s far better than the birds and bees.

I believe this kid would hate his parents less for telling the truth to him even at a very early phase of his life instead of sheltering him too much. He could even end up the president of a country for all you know.

Boys don’t mind playing with girls in pre-school. When they reach the age of 7 onwards, they begin to be interested in the opposite sex in a different manner. For instance when he sees Lisa smiling and she glimpses at him, he all of a sudden looks away, then it clearly is an indication that you are slowly approaching the age of enlightenment.

Even as they reach their teen years, parents leave their sex education to their teachers and filthy magazines and porn videos that they gain access to by innocently going through their siblings’ stuff and getting creamed for it when caught.

“The best way to learn is through experience, which is, making mistakes and learning from them”.  I think this is BS! This is exactly why there is an increasing rate of juvenile delinquents! 

A clear example is when a boy knocks up a girl at a younger age than acceptable to the norms of society. Parents would react about the freakin’ news by getting hysterical and would blame them for being disobedient, too wild and too radical! 

Oh Puhlease!!!! Spare them from the dagger looks and the hefty lectures. Too late mom and dad! Deal with it! This is by far the outcome of the birds the bees and allowing them to learn from textbook sex education!

Quit lying will yah! Kids are smarter nowadays. Why wait for them to commit their own mistakes to learn from it but it’s too late to turn back? Talk to them –they don’t bite! Trust me! Sheltering them from the truth about life would cause more damage than good. 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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The Master Art of Foreplay - the Man's G-Spot
























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



How adventurous are you? Are you willing to go the distance to satisfy your partner?
Most men would say “Adventure is my middle name” and “absolutely” with utmost confidence when it comes to sexual intercourse and experimenting on sexual positions thanks to PORN and the Kama Sutra. 

Women would and answer “it depends on my mood” to both questions. Get the hint? No? Are you retarded or something? Oh man! She needs motivation you dork!
Satisfying a woman entails a lot of time spent on initiating foreplay until her batteries are all charged up and her libido spiking up to the maximum level. I don’t mean just mediocre foreplay and hard slapping and pounding sexual intercourse after dude! It has to give her a very electrifying, explosive, intense and invigorating and masterfully orgasmic experience prior to getting your  Jerky, Johnson, Willy, Junior or whatever you call your penis spit-fully satisfied inside her sweet, wet, warm, tunnel of love.

Men treat foreplay as just a waste of time and are oh so eager to just get it on. What most men don’t understand is that women who get enough foreplay can go the distance of attempting what only a handful of women would do for their man – and that is, to stimulate the male G-spot.

“Eeewww!”, “You want me to do what???,”Yuck!”, ”That’s so disgusting! Are you gay?” – Typical reaction of women, who are deprived of enough foreplay, asked or, since we’re talking about sensitive and emotional women, I should say “requested” to stimulate the male G-spot.

For those of you who are clueless about what the hell I’m talking about, brace yourselves – get a cup of coffee, a cigarette, a bottle of beer or anything that could keep you glued to reading what I intend to reveal to the less fortunate ones. 

Alright, the male G-spot is the prostate gland and not the head of your penis or your balls. It is located and can be stimulated from the anus. Yup! Don’t blame or question God for engineering it that way. There is a reason for its anatomical position. It is there because it is situated close to the so-called ejaculatory ducts. The term ejaculatory ducts are quite self-explanatory isn’t it? Get the logic?

Stunned? Here’s more...

This may be such a turn-off but if you give women the pampering and satisfaction she yearns and needs during foreplay, she will go the distance of allowing you to lay on your back with your legs spread apart like when a woman is about to give birth and best achieved when a pillow us under your hips aiding elevation and giving the appropriate angle. Applying pressure on the perineum or the surface of your anus would prep you up.

Stimulating the male G-spot or the prostate gland that resembles the shape of a chestnut requires gentle probing using the middle finger initially, to about 2 inches inside the anus. And the crowd went wild! Geez! Ever heard of a LUBRICANT you chicken? Your partner can make it even more interesting and exhilarating when coupled with fellatio while probing and applying different levels of pressure and intensity on your G-spot.

Trust this soon-to-be sex guru - after such an experience you would surely need to take a very cold shower to keep the conflagration under control because it is definitely illuminatingly hot when a woman does this to you in exchange for treating her like a queen during foreplay.

Class dismissed!
 
 


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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The Female Orgasm: How It Works, How It Works for You

 


 


















by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com  



I’m sure you’ve heard this disconcerting fact before:  75% of women do not reach orgasm during intercourse.  This doesn’t mean that 75% of women don’t cum at all, it means only 25% of them can cum while you’re pumping away and screaming baseball statistics into their ears.  This is a rectifiable situation, and it starts with you, buddy.  Understanding the four stages of the orgasm, as laid out by sexperts Masters & Johnson, can help you put your significant other into that desired 25%, and make her like you better!  They are as follows: 

1)     Excitement
2)     Plateau
3)     Orgasm
4)     Resolution

 Excitement

So what happens when you are excited?  Blood rushes to your penis, and it gets hard.  It is similar for women.  Blood rushes to her genitals causing her clitoris to swell and her vagina to increase in diameter and length.  Her cervix and uterus are pulled up, and her body produces lubrication, i.e. she gets wet.  While this doesn’t happen as quickly as it does to you, 5 minutes into Meet Joe Black she ought to be ready to go. 

Plateau

The term plateau gives the impression that there is not a lot happening.  On the contrary, there is a lot going on.  Your heart rate and your breathing speed up.  Blood is congested in your genitals, waiting to blow.  This is the same for her.  Listen to her breathing and feel her heart rate.  If you don’t notice a change, go back to step one. 

Orgasm

Now here is where men and women differ.  Men have a Point of No Return (PNR).  This is when there is no stopping a man.  He is going to cum even if his mother walks into the room.  Women do not have this.  A woman can be a split second away from orgasm, and it may be interrupted.  She must be stimulated all the way through her orgasm! 
After this, there is the Refractory Period.  That is the part where you’ve cum, you may still be hard, but you are definitely not climaxing again.  Once again, women do not have a Refractory Period!  They go back to the Plateau stage.  This confuses men.  To them, the orgasm is the end game.  Once it’s achieved, the act is over.  For women, they’re just getting started.  Each proceeding orgasm is more intense than the previous.  Given proper stimulation, a woman can reach an “orgasm cloud” where her orgasms are so strong and so continuous, that they seemingly blend into one constant orgasm.  

The Resolution

After the Refractory Stage comes the Resolution.  This is the part where you’re blissfully snoring before the condom even comes off.  Since women don’t go through the Refractory Stage, Resolution begins once stimulation has ended.  If you have satisfied her sexually, you have flooded her brain with endorphins, the happiness hormone.  That means she will be happier with you, less likely to be angered by your dirty socks on the floor.  Well, at least for a few hours anyway.



About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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Good Sex: It’s All About the Head
























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 


Men like sex.  That’s hardly news.  But what is the difference between having sex and having the best sex ever?  Use your brain.  Yes, that is the answer.  Your brain is the most powerful sex organ you have.  Thinking about sex and understanding what you like is the most important, and perhaps the most overlooked, step in being a dynamic lover.   

Men tend to react simply and physically to arousal:  “I see a hot girl.  I want to have sex with the hot girl.”  Transforming that into mind blowing sex means getting to know yourself, and I don’t just mean manually.  Understand who you are as a sexual being.  These days, men are bombarded with sexual imagery.  Porn is readily available.  Half-naked girls are constantly bouncing across your TV screen and through the pages of magazines.  As a result, men tend to take their sexual cues from outside sources.  While new ideas are always welcome, it is important to explore the real reasons behind your arousals, and the most thrilling ways to satisfy them.   

Let’s take the hot girl from before.  You already know you want to have sex with her, but what is that sex going to look like?  Ask yourself some questions:


  • How do you want to touch her?
  • How do you want her to touch you?
  • What are you hoping to achieve during your encounter (besides orgasm)?


Understand what turns you on and why, and learn how to communicate it.  Being a confident lover works in both your favors.  For example, if you love performing oral sex, your partner has the benefit of being in bed with someone who is completely engrossed in the task at hand.  She may reach orgasm several times before you’re done.  However, if that is something you’re not into, your partner will sense it, and that is uncomfortable for everyone involved. 

Getting to know yourself sexually is valuable in understanding your own comfort zone.  The kinkiest of kink may be intriguing on screen, but that doesn’t mean it translates well into real life.  Understanding your sexual boundaries and how to communicate them to your partner will help you avoid unsatisfying encounters.   

The brain is a powerful organ.  Your body only reacts the way the brain instructs.  When you understand the satisfaction of the sex you’re having in your mind, you can bring it to the bedroom.  You will be a more confident lover, allowing you to satisfy both yourself and your partner better than ever.


About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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How Did He Get Her

























by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 


I’m sure you’ve seen it a million times: the most beautiful woman you’ve seen in years on the arm of the ugliest/nerdiest/oldest man you’ve ever seen.  I’m sure your first thought was, “Wow, that guy must be filthy freakin’ rich!”  Well, maybe.  Maybe not.  Either way, that’s probably not the whole story.  

Men and women become sexually aroused for different reasons.  Men are visual, and women are multisensory.  While men can get turned on by even a hint of naked flesh, women incorporate all their senses and feelings into arousal.  So even if the man isn’t the most visually appealing, he could be brilliant with a wicked sense of humor and smells nice and tastes like chocolate mousse, and, yes, maybe he pays for dinner.  One thing you can guarantee, he has admitted to goals outside getting that woman into bed.   

Women look at the whole package, or at least aspects of the package you don’t.  When men see a beautiful woman, they are physically capable of having sex with her in a matter of seconds, and probably able to finish not long after that. (This is part of the reason Playboy has remained one of the most successful publications in American history, and why Playgirl tanked when gay men got their own porn.)  Women, however, need to have other senses satisfied.  A good conversation is as erotic to a woman as her low-cut blouse is to you. 

This brings us to the next point: to a woman, sex and emotion are not mutually exclusive.  A woman has to feel an emotional connection to her partner in order to enjoy the sex.  This does not mean that a woman cannot have casual sex.  It simply means that there must be an understanding of mutual respect between partners for a woman to be satisfied.  All that requires is for the man to be aware of the fact that there is a living, breathing, responsive human under him.  Stated as such, that may be obvious, but it is quite overlooked.  While you’re thinking, “Don’t cum, don’t cum, don’t cum,” she is feeling every moment of the process and evaluating it.  If you’re ignoring her while you’re inside her, she can sense it, and may see it as a form of rejection.  This will not make her want to have sex with you again. 

So there you go, if the ugly/nerdy/old guy can get a supermodel (and make her cum), then by all means you should be able to get the cute girl two cubes down from you.  Just appeal to all her senses.  And throw on some Barry White.  That never hurt anyone.



About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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You’re Such a Tease

by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com 

 

Women seem to have an amount of sexual self control that men just can’t wrap their minds around.  They can tease and play to the point where you are sporting some serious blue balls, and she hasn’t even gotten wet.  Guess what, you can beat her at her own game.  You just need a good game plan.  Here’s a quick guideline to driving her mad for you. 

1)     The Prize

2)     The Strategic Back-Off

3)     The Payoff 

The Prize

Guess what, buddy, you are the prize, and you probably never hear that.  Women’s magazines are inundated with advice about how to love yourself.  It’s practically all Oprah talks about.  However, men don’t often get the same encouragement.  That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t hear it.  You have something to offer.  Sex with you is unlike sex she has had or will have with anyone else.  Keep this in your mind on the way to the bedroom.  There is nothing more arousing than confidence.  If you’re unsure or apologetic, she will sense it, and it will make everyone uncomfortable. 

The Strategic Back-Off

So you are at the point where you are definitely going to have sex.  A man’s first instinct is to get in there, and get the job done.  Yes, this is fun.  For you.  For around three and a half minutes.  However, you can make it better.  For the both of you.  Instead of ripping her clothes off and diving in penis first, ease into it.  Pull the straps of her dress down, and kiss her shoulders.  Then push her straps back up, and kiss her mouth.  If you’re about to head downstairs, pause to nibble around her belly and inner thighs.  A woman’s sexual experience is multisensory.  Every touch, caress, and kiss sends shocks through her body.  You can drive her to near insanity.  Isn’t it more fun for her to beg for sex? 

The Payoff

The Payoff is really, really good sex.  It’s not just good sex for her, but for you, as well.  When you tease her, you are teasing yourself.  You may want to lick her lips or suck her breast more than anything, but if you wait until the point where you just can’t hold off anymore, the taste of her mouth and her breasts is even sweeter.  If you’re running your lips across her inner thigh, savoring her flesh before you pleasure her, then your own sexual energy builds and builds.  The more it builds, the more it releases, giving you a more intense, satisfying orgasm.

About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "The Virtuoso Lover", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: The Virtuoso Lover.
 

Jenna Jameson is Not Your Girlfriend. Sorry.


































by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com



Who likes the Die Hard movies?  Okay, who doesn’t?  Bruce Willis plays John McClane, the ultimate hero.  He’s strong, he’s smart, and he can take down an entire cell of German terrorists in his bare feet.  Every man has fantasized about saving an entire city through John McClane-ian feats of strength and prowess, where in the end the ex-wife forgives you, again, and your arrogant boss shakes your hand as he realizes he was wrong about you the whole time.  However, you haven’t run off to join the NYPD.  In fact, you’ve probably broken the law more than you’ve protected it.  Why?  Probably because you know that real NYPD officers’ lives look nothing like Die Hard, and that if you ever tried to run a car into a helicopter, you would certainly be killed.  So why do you enjoy watching such blatant fallacies?  Because it’s a movie!  You’re aware that the audience is meant to suspend reality, and enjoy the adrenaline rush.  So if it’s obvious that the Die Hard movies don’t represent real law enforcement, then what makes you think porn films represent real sex? 

Men are extremely visual.  They are aroused by what they see.  A naked 19-year-old with a decent boob job and an okay weave (yeah, sorry, the hair is fake too) are enough to incite movement in a guy’s pants.  Now put that 19-year-old on her knees and show her getting penetrated from all angles while she screams in ecstasy, and, well, you know how men react to that.  The porn industry predominately produces products that appeal to heterosexual men (although the production of gay porn and porn for women is on the rise).  Sexual imagery is their business.  The films are made to thrill the straight man, providing him an outlet for his sexual energy.  They are not, however, meant as an accurate portrayal of mutually gratifying sexual acts.  You don’t believe me?  Go stick your fist in your girlfriend’s no-no hole and see how she reacts. 

The mature consumer knows this.  Porn is not a how-to manual on how to please your woman.  It represents fantasy.  The visual stimulation offered through pornographic films can certainly add to the eroticism of a sexual encounter, but your partner may not be physically up to simulating what’s on the screen.  Porn actresses are professionals paid to represent fantasy.  They are meant to look like they are in the throws of sheer pleasure, and they probably have a certain physical prowess not shared by the average woman.  Hey, it probably turns on your better half when Bruce Willis escapes the rapidly flooding highway tunnel by shooting out of a manhole 30 feet in the air only to be left unscathed, but she doesn’t expect you to be able to do it.  



About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





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by Michael Webb, Founder - VirtuosoLover.com




How Your Douche bag Friends Ruined Your Sex Life

 Where did you learn about sex? Health class? Your dad? But where did you learn about having sex? A lot of your early knowledge of intercourse probably came from your buddies, especially the ones who claimed to be getting some. Bad news, friend, they were just as clueless as you were. They too were relying on information from dudes who claimed to be having a bunch of sex and weren’t. Unfortunately for women everywhere, a lot of this locker room talk has no merit, yet sticks in the sexual psyche of the American male. Here are some things your buddies have bragged about, and shouldn’t have.

 He equated penis size with sexual prowess.

 Men seem to think that the bigger the penis the better. Guess what guys, size doesn’t matter…much. There are so many ways to pleasure a woman, and penetration is actually the least effective. Only 25% of women orgasm during intercourse. That doesn’t mean that 75% of men have tiny, unsatisfying penises, it just means that it’s difficult for women to cum during sex. So most of a woman’s climaxing happens during what you consider “foreplay,” which happens before your penis even touches her.

 He told you he went down on some girl “for, like, two hours.”

 This one even he may actually believe. When a man realizes a woman is going to let him stick his penis in her, every second leading up to that desirous act feels like an hour. It’s not. Most men also think that performing oral sex on a woman is just something you do to get her wet enough to handle your impressive member. Not true. What you consider foreplay is, to her, part of the sexual experience as a whole. Instead of rushing through it so you can get to the “actual sex part,” keep yourself tuned into her responses. Pleasing her can be pleasing yourself. And remember, women aren’t one-hit-and-quit like men when it comes to orgasms. So if you start the orgasm train early, she will definitely be impressed.

 He brags about how long he can last.

 Let’s put this to bed once and for all. Gentlemen, women do not want a man who can penetrate her continuously over the course of several hours. The genital area is home to some extremely delicate tissue, and the body can only produce so much lubrication. This is not to say that women don’t like sexual acts that last over the course of several hours. For a woman, sex begins the minute the decision is made to have the sex. This kissing, the caressing, and the dirty talk are as important to her as the penetration itself. If you allow yourself to be a part of that, you may be surprised at how intense the sexual experience can be for the both of you!



About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "VirtuosoLover.com", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: VirtuosoLover.com.








This is the ultimate trilogy. If men want amazing sex, then all they need to do is become virtuoso lovers. Men who learn how to give women the sex experience they crave will have hot, pulsating sex available to them whenever they desire.





Click the Banner below to visit the " Love Doctor " website and view this and many more products to help you improve your Lovelife and Relationships, the site is packed with lots of books on all aspects of Lovemaking and Relationships !